Why love does not pass?

Natalya Vavilova
Natalya Vavilova
February 26, 2013
Why love does not pass?

Love without reciprocity is an oppressive burden and a painful, but useful, life lesson. Sometimes it happens like this - we fall in love, and in return we get indifference. It does not always work out to tell ourselves that it’s time to look for a new love, and we continue to suffer and sigh about who does not need it. Everyone knows that it takes time to cool down, so as not to recall with pain the failure. But time does not always heal. So, why love does not pass?

There are various factors that influence the duration of such a painful feeling. For example, age. If you are only sixteen, then the attitude towards life is still immature, as is unstable self-esteem. It is important to understand that at a young age every little thing seems special and significant, especially when it comes to feelings. Often, one of the established couple suddenly decides to break off the relationship, while the second is not ready for it. And then the love of the one who was thrown, can inflame with unprecedented force. It is necessary to clearly understand that a person who is not interested in you will not become close afterwards.Therefore, it is only necessary to wait and try to distract.

Some say that first love does not pass. However, these are just words. The first feeling will leave a mark in the soul, will be remembered for its sharpness for life. But mature love, which will come later, is sure to eclipse youthful throwing. Of course, it happens that people stay together forever, having met in their youth. That's just rarely happens. First love is a lesson, preparation for serious feelings, and not always successful.

But if you are lucky and you are sure that your love is genuine and meaningful, know that true love does not pass. It only subsides, experiencing separation, reborn and grows over the years. And only having met the person who becomes it, you will be able to realize and live this feeling. After all, very often people confuse desire and affection, hurt feelings with love. Stop and listen, how deep is the feeling? Only time can help find the answer. And remember, love cannot be controlled, you can only try to learn to hold back the ardor and hear your heart.