How to change for the better?
There is a moment of enlightenment in the life of many, when we realize that we are hopelessly behind not only other people, be they classmates or partners, but have not become who they could be. It’s a paradox, but it turns out that you can keep up with yourself. Asking how to change for the better, it is necessary to understand that change must occur both within us and around. Transformations must undergo all aspects of life. Consider the most important.
- Social life. I and they. Do you remember the old saying “with whom you will lead - from that you will pick up”? It’s so that people who take a lot of your time just completely deprive you of the opportunity to see the world from the other side. To change the environment means to change life. Yes, it sounds easy, but in practice (pause) you are afraid of loneliness, as, incidentally, I am also afraid of him. But the positive thing is that nature does not tolerate emptiness, and the place of people pulling you down will be more sincere. Verified by experience.
- Emotions and deeds.The surest way to understand your essence and change for the better is to become aware of yourself as a mortal being. Death is what happens to others - this is how we see our life. And so we lose, lose and lose. Remember that you live once, so there is nothing to be afraid of. Before you give up the dream, get scared to approach the person you fell in love with at first sight, remember that this life will never happen again. You have nothing to lose - everything is in your hands. Do not live as if eternity is ahead: life is short. The only obstacle in your life is yourself. There are simply no other obstacles. Do not be afraid to commit an act, enjoy the emotions!
- Plans and strategy. Always remember that whatever you do, you must have a plan. Learn to think strategically, plan at least the near future. In all, plan and systemacy are important. Moreover, it should be done competently. As an example: what goal is achievable - to become a doctor for 3 years or constantly go to the gym 3 times a week? It is not the poor and the unfortunate who do not plan their lives, they are the poor and the unfortunate who do not plan their lives.
Now you have something to think about.